Oh, the joys of family travel.
Traveling with children, especially young children, can be so challenging, so exhausting that it will make you question why you thought this was a good idea in the first place …and by that I mean having children. There are, of course wonderful moments on the road where it all feels totally worth it, like when they finally fall asleep. But we parents of toddlers know that those moments do not come at the amazing Aquarium you paid over 150 dollars for the whole family to enjoy, but usually in its parking lot where the kids have stumbled upon an empty can and are now having the time of their lives merrily kicking it.
After three years of traveling with two toddlers on planes, trains and one very dirty mini-van here are my go-tos for keeping the peace so I live to travel another day.
1. Bubbles. God bless them
Blowing bubbles allows children to jump up and down while essentially staying in one place. This way I can wear my kids out before we board a flight without a lot of running around-which only wears me out and annoys other waiting passengers. Note that you need the size of the container to be under 100ml (like this) in order to get it through TSA…
A handy treat to have for take-off and landing to acclimate the ears. Not appropriate for babies but totally awesome for toddlers. I buy dum-dums by the case (I’m not kidding) it’s a small hit of sugar but enough to make them really happy they are getting a treat.
I have a handful of these in every purse, travel bag and diaper bag I own. I get the large size balloons since the smaller can be a choking hazard. It’s an instant toy to be inflated at the first signs of your kids getting antsy but with little chance of destruction the way a ball would bring on. It utilizes a tremendous amount of energy and focus in a small child and yet the balloon itself moves in super slow motion. Finally something I can catch! I love them. Especially in hotels as I don’t believe anything has ever been knocked down or broken by a floating balloon.
4. Crayola Twistable Crayons
They don’t break, need to be sharpened or melt in a hot car. You will also receive a year supply of normal crayons, one small 4 pack at a time, at every restaurant you sit down to eat at so no need to bring the run-of-the-mill variety.
At night children move their bodies wildly about in a dance that would impress Martha Graham. Make any queen or double bed more child safe with these extremely easy rails (pump included). Compared to the big job they do they take up very little room in your luggage.
I mean you could bring the big grey roll you have out in the garage but that’s the color most criminals are found in possession with so I just want to keep it fun and vacation-y. This is definitely one miracle product that people use for everything except, it seems, taping ducts. It’s a one stop child proofing tool; tape over electrical outlets, tape up dangling chords on lamps and shades, mold into nice corner guards as well as tape drawers shut. But there’s something about its super sticky texture that kids love and until Ellis duct tapes Elizabeth to a hotel door I’m bringing it.
7. Soft cover books
The I Can Read Books usually displayed in a tall metal turnstile at bookstores are the best. My kids are nowhere near reading but these books are thin, lightweight and perfect for travel. 10 I Can Read Books don’t even equal the weight of ONE Knuffle Bunny Book.
Items that only make things worse
Disposable table toppers
Imagine a sheet of plastic wrap with four sides of adhesive tape that once you peel off now clings and sticks all over you. Mind you, you are attempting to unfold and peel off infuriatingly thin plastic with a fussy/flailing/hungry child who once you have finally secured the table topper rips off easily in one fell swoop. Just keep a packet of handi-wipes to clean the table.
A favorite toy or blanket
It makes perfect sense to travel with a beloved toy or blanket that a child will take comfort in and help them adjust to their new environment. Until you leave it at a rest stop that you drove away from 3 hours ago.
I just couldn’t risk that and so I when I told my daughter that her blanket “Greenie” needed to stay home while we went away I was shocked (cuz it’s never happened before) when she understood and accepted it. I told her this a few days before we were to leave and kept reinforcing that each day so she wasn’t caught off guard.
When my husband and I travel we like to bring toys they forgot they had and so are happy to see as well as super cheap fun things at a dollar store that I actually pray will be left behind.
What are some of your go-to items for traveling with kids? Share in the comments!