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Could this be the most romantic destination in the USA?

From coastal beauties like Big Sur and San Diego to the redwoods and wine country, there’s no shortage of fabulous California destinations. However, there’s something to be said for venturing a little off the beaten path. One of California’s best lesser-known destinations has to be the Ojai Valley.

Located between Los Angeles and Santa Barbara, you’ll find beautiful Oaji (population: 7,500). Nestled in the Topatopa Mountains, this village’s art scene, scenic hiking trails, fabulous spas and stunning vistas attract a bohemian type of traveler that also enjoys life’s finer things. Add in their notable food and wine scene, and you have what I think may be one of the most romantic destinations in the USA.

Here’s how I’d spend a weekend in Ojai, California.

Where to stay:

Could this be the most romantic destination in the USA? - Ojai, CA

For a luxurious stay, drop your bags at the Ojai Valley Inn & Spa. This stunning property features an award-winning, 31,000 square-foot day spa with two pools, workout room, art classes (think water color and wreath-making workshops), plus a full-service spa menu with indulgent body work packages.

Could this be the most romantic destination in the USA? - Ojai, CA

If you’re not one to let the grass grow under your feet, there’s golf, as well as a concierge service that will create the Ojai perfect itinerary. Rock climbing, horseback riding, kayaking on Lake Casitas, food and wine tours… if you can’t find a single thing you enjoy doing on their listed activities, I’ll eat my hat.

Prefer something a little easier on the wallet? Check out the Ojai Rancho Inn.

Could this be the most romantic destination in the USA? - Ojai, California Rancho Inn

In 2012, hoteliers Shelter Social Club overhauled this 1950s roadside motel into a darling series of rooms and cottages. There’s a pool and onsite restaurant, as well as access to bikes you can cruise into Ojai’s charming town center.

Could this be the most romantic destination in the USA? - Ojai, California Rancho Inn

Could this be the most romantic destination in the USA? - Ojai, California Rancho Inn


Where to eat:

The omst romantic destination in the USA - Ojai, California

It’s easy to spend a few days kicking around town. Start your day with breakfast at Knead Baking Co., featuring house-made bagels and pastries, quiches and delicious coffee drinks.

If you’re in town over a weekend, a visit to the Ojai Farmers Market is a must. Operating every Sunday from 9am-1pm, the market sells everything from pistachios and artisan olive oils to organic berries and beeswax candles. Plus, you know in a town that’s chockfull of people of the New Age variety, there’s great people watching to be had!

The most romantic destination in the USA - Ojai, California

You’d be remiss to skip a lunch or dinner at Farmer and the Cook, a casual Mexican spot run by a husband (the farmer) and wife (the cook) team. Try a huarache, a thick, homemade corn tortilla topped with grilled potatoes, onions & peppers, cheese, salsa roja, ahi cilantro sauce & crema.

Ojai Deer Lodge

The Ojai Deer Lodge is another great options for food, drinks and live music. Established in 1932, this this former gas station and general store now serves as a culinary haven and music venue.


What to do:

the most romantic destination in the USA - Ojai, California

Bibliophiles will want to allocate an hour (or three!) to browsing at Bart’s Books. Located at the corner of Matilija and Canada streets, Bart’s is the largest independently owned and operated outdoor bookstore in the U.S.A. The “store” got its start in 1964 when Ojai resident Richard Bartinsdale started displaying his massive book collection on shelves along the sidewalk. He left coffee cans atop the book case so people could buy books via the honor system. You can still buy select books this way at the shop, as well as peruse rare and out-of-print titles worth thousands. Ahhh, only in Ojai!

Ojai, CA - Summer Camp

Aesthetically, Ojai has its own unique style. Think bohemian rugs, succulents, handmade pottery, and oh-so-California salt rocks and crystals. To bring some of that look back home, head to Summer Camp, a shop specializing in home décor and lifestyle goods.

Ojai, CA - Summer Camp

They do custom framing, sell well-curated vintage items like rugs and art, plus handmade candles, tastefully tie-dyed pillowcases and clothing—all made in America.

The most romantic destination in the USA - Ojai, California

No trip to Ojai is complete without taking in one of their epic sunsets. Dubbed “The Pink Moment,” the entire valley floods with rich, pink light every evening as the sun dips below the horizon. Though you can enjoy the light anywhere in the valley, the most icon view is atop Meditation Mount, a 32-acre garden and meditation center perched above town ($2 donation suggested). Please note the center closes just after sunset, so be prepared to take in the pink light and then hurry along. If you’re into meditation, they offer many a free, 30-minute guided meditation session Wednesday – Sunday mornings at 8:30am; plus moonlight meditations during every full moon. Ommmmmm.

What’s your pick for the most romantic destination in the USA? Share in the comments!

With its fabulous spas, excellent wines, fun culture and stunning vistas, I have to believe Ojai is one of the most romantic destinations in the USA.

Photos: 1 / 2 / 3 / 4 / 5 / 6

Ojai Rancho Inn photos by Nancy Neil
Summer Camp photos by Sarah Ellefson

This Post Has 4 Comments

  1. Beautiful!
    But Sedona, AZ, is a beautiful and romantic destination also. My husband and I went there 2 years ago for our wedding anniversary and we were blown away by this amazing place! It’s incredible and for sure we’ll be back!

    1. Fabiane, where in sedona and what time of year did you stay? Hubby and I are celebrating our 33rd aniversary and I’d like to go there

  2. Ojai is an absolute dream for destination weddings or weekend group celebrations with these gorgeous properties and few quirky dining and shopping options, but most romantic destination in the US is a bit of a stretch. Cambria, just a 3 hour drive up the coast oozes with cozy, quaint options for couples to spark romance.

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